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How To Host The Perfect Tea Party

By Soraia Martins August 24, 2021, 3:56 pm

Tea parties are the perfect occasion to gather friends around a table for an afternoon, catch up with a cup of tea in hand, or celebrate birthdays, baby and bridal showers, or other events.

The custom of drinking tea in the afternoon started among the British working class in the 1700s, which was accompanied by a hearty spread, as it would often take the place of supper.

It soon evolved into something more elegant as higher classes caught on to the habit and began serving it as well, but as a lighter meal around 4 PM. This became a British tradition that expanded into many corners of the world and still takes place nowadays in many households.

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Tea parties are lighthearted, aesthetically pleasing endeavors prepared with finger food, cakes, scones, and an assortment of teas. When hosting your tea party, there are a number of aspects to consider to present a proper, even if laidback, event. Read on and find out the different steps that go into hosting a tea party.

Send Out The Invitations

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Perhaps you find this a bit outdated, but hosting a tea party implies knowing exactly how many guests are coming so you can plan it suitably. Whether you choose to host an intimate gathering or a more festive and jam-packed affair, make it memorable, and don’t skip the amusing feeling that comes with opening an invitation — even if it is sent through e-mail.

Select The Tea

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The namesake of your party should be the star, so don’t shy away from selecting a wide variety of teas. Set out some more traditional options, such as English Breakfast and Earl Grey, as well as herbals like peppermint, chamomile, and hibiscus. Black, green, white, floral, or fruity, you can’t go wrong if you serve premium-quality brews to your guests to elevate their experience.

Tip: Add cream, milk, sugar, and lemon slices to your setting to accommodate your guests’ diversified tastes.

Plan Your Menu

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Your tea party must be remembered not only for the delightful tea selection but also for the food. Mixing sweet and savory is usually the best way to go at tea parties, and the possibilities are endless.

From finger sandwiches and quiches, to tea cakes and cookies, and of course some delicious scones, a contemporary menu for a tea party includes a sundry selection of delicate and tasty nourishment.

Decorate The Table

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Tablescaping your tea party setting will surprise and delight your guests, and it is most certainly an important step when hosting a tea party. Pick a handful of items that you feel will take your table from simple to stylish, and decorate it to your liking or even according to a previously chosen theme.

Flower arrangements, candles, three-tiered stands to serve the food, a lovely lace tablecloth, and your most elegant china will do the trick and create a beautiful tablescape for your tea party. If you only own mismatched teacups, worry not, as it will bring a kind of unique, boho atmosphere to your tea party.


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A tea party is all about enjoyment and indulgence, a moment of leisure that requires only a number of people and a will to drink the most delightful teas. As the British famously believed a cup of tea could cure almost everything, you should take the opportunity to host a tea party and see for yourself.

Whether you are celebrating something significant or just catching up with friends, hosting a tea party is a simple and polished way to break out the nice linens and set a beautiful table to welcome guests into your home.

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